WE ADOPTED THIS 3 YEAR OLD BOY on a quiet winter morning, just days before the holidays, when the house still felt too big and too silent. He sat on the floor near the Christmas tree, unsure of where to place his hands, unsure of whether the warmth around him was real or temporary. His blue eyes studied everything — the lights, the ornaments, the soft rug beneath him — as if memorizing it all in case it disappeared. He wore a simple gray sweater, and when he looked up, he gave a cautious smile that felt like a question rather than joy.

The agency file was thin, but heavy. “Multiple placements,” it said. “Withdrawn. Quiet. Delayed speech.” People always ask what made us choose him, as if love needs justification. The truth is simpler and harder to explain. He didn’t reach for us. He didn’t cry. He just watched. And in that stillness, we saw a child who had learned very early that expecting nothing hurt less than hoping.